“That’s awesome! Whoever made that must be a real art fanatic…” GG
This is a very old post. It’s also one of the most read posts on my site even now. So I know that the need to make Worry Dolls is still something that parents turn to the internet for. It makes total sense. Even small kids get anxious, and as adults we know the tools that work for us to calm our worries are not things that children can comprehend.
How to Make your own Worry Dolls
How to make safe Worry Dolls
So it was when my daughter, aged 8, started to have problems falling asleep, that I turned to the internet. And read about worry dolls for the first time. The problem was, she was still a thumb sucker, and also prone to putting random things in her mouth, especially if they were small. Most of the guatemalan worry dolls you find on the internet are tiny! Definitely not the kind of thing you want to leave in your child’s bed with no supervision,
So we made our own. Not only were they big enough not to be a choking risk, they were easy to create for a young child too. Craft activity, and mental health prop – ideal.
How we made large size worry dolls
I am allergic to craft. I once made a bumble bee out of a toilet roll and some tissue paper. It looked like a Chelsea goalie on a very bad day in the mud at Stamford Bridge. But needs must, so armed with some jumbo wooden pegs (and copious cups of coffee) we got started.
Thoughts of an 8 year old
Now as it happens, I struggle to doze off when my head hits the pillow. My brain sees any kind of physical down-time as an opportunity to strategise and get creative. Often I get a bit stressed about things that have happened during the day, or on the TV 🙂 So I have a set of worry dolls. I chat to them every night, stick them under my pillow, and they look after my worries so I don’t have to.
Lately my little brother has also struggled a bit in the sleep department, which is a bit of a change from the norm. His class has been mixed up on his return to the new school year, and he has lost his 2 closest friends to another class. Whilst that may well see him knuckle down and improve his writing, it’s not easy on a 6 year old, and he has become somewhat anxious instead of that happy little guy he normally is. So we’ve been considering a set of worry dolls for him too. The problem is, worry dolls are usually tiny, and small children tend to put stuff in their mouths – you get my gist…
Make your own giant Worry Dolls
Armed with our £30 voucher for Hobbycraft that DHL had kindly sent us, we headed off shopping. We actually spent £90 and came back with lots of Decopatch items – that stuff is COOL! But that’s another story. Anyway, here’s what we needed for our worry dolls.
- Wooden pegs
- Pipe cleaners
- Assorted coloured thread or yarn
- Clear glue
To be ultra-safe for a very small child, it would probably be best to leave out the pipe cleaners. Make sure you use a non-toxic glue too.
These really couldn’t be any simpler. We simply wrapped half a pipe cleaner around our peg, anchoring some embroidery thread underneath it with a dab of glue. Then we wrapped the thread, changing the colour here and there, and fixing with glue when necessary. We used ceramic/fabric pens to mark our dolls features, and decorated with dazzle dots and stick on gems.
Now we’re not traditionalists, so these worry dolls are only very loosely based on their Guatemalan counterparts – the sentiment’s the same, but we couldn’t resist alternative personas. So here you have, in order…
Soldier boy, Romeo (see the heart?), Disco Doll (hand on hip), and Bumble Bee.
What will you make?
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I particularly like the scary bee :))
Oh Actually Mummy, they turned out SO WELL!!! I so pleased for you. And can’t wait to have a go at our own!
Your doorbell plays Little Mermaid?????
*Groans* Yes. Yes they b*@@dy do…
What a fun idea! Nice thought to make them slightly bigger than the traditional sort. Maybe Actually Mummy will have caught the crafting bug (sorry Bug)
You do bear more than a passing resemblance to Disco Doll you know that don’t you?
Great skillz!
Modelled on a winning formula, she is 😉
Excellent worry dolls! I love that you have a Bumble Bee and Disco Doll is particularly cool 😀
I think Romeo bears a striking resemblance to Mr Tumble…
*sniggers*
What a fun challenge, and I love the dolls. x
great idea, and love the idea of the challenge! The disco one reminds me of someone….. 😉
*looks innocent*
They are SO Cool! Bit too old my Z yet but I think my niece would really love this!
Oh what a lovely idea! And you’ve done well, speaking from someone allergic to craft, too. I’ll pin it and give it a whirl!
Oh do! I dread craft, I think it’s because of the time it takes up when I feel busy, and the mess, but this was really therapeutic, and doesn’t take too long.
Love the look of these worry dolls, might have to have a try .
#Parenting pin it party, have pinned
You so rock at craft, me thinks you are keeping this a secret. Have not thought about worry dolls for Pops, but with school and her never telling me a thing, I think they would be great 🙂
It really has made a difference very quickly to his worrying – amazing how something small can really help children.
What a great idea .. I think I should make one I worry loads
Every little helps 🙂
This is a fantastic idea Helen and one bookmarked for half term which is coming up… Little Mermaid indeed
Roo has just become a little more of a worrier than normal, maybe I should suggest making one of these with her to see if it helps.